A G-spot Stimulation Conversation: Part 1
There are many things sexually liberated women know in the year of 2018. First of all, they know their bodies. Second, they know what turns them on. They also know how important it is to FEEL GOOD. Lastly, they know where their G-spot is! How did these ladies gain all of this awesome knowledge, you ask? Research. How does one do sexual research? By finding and fondling.
If finding and fondling your G-spot is something you’re interested in then you’ve come to the right place—cause we’re going in today!
The elusive female G-spot isn’t so hard to pinpoint anymore, although there is still some controversy as to if it actually exists. Even with the doubt, there’s plenty of scientific evidence that it does in fact exist and that it’s an AWESOME place to explore. (The people who say it’s a myth are the people who haven’t found it on themselves or their lover yet… just saying. ) As for the male G-spot, well let’s just say that it’s in a place some may be a little leery to—but totally should— go.
*IN FACT, WE’RE GOING THERE LATER FOR PART 2 OF THIS DISCUSSION!
ORIGIN OF THE TERM:
Have you ever wondered why the G-spot is called the G-spot? The G-spot, or the Gräfenberg Spot, was named after the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. Gräfenberg was the man who took the studies of 17th-century Dutch physician Regnier de Graaf’s description and referral to an “erogenous zone” in the vagina connected to the urethra. G-berg tested it and then reported his results to the modern world.
DEFINITION AND LOCATION:
The female G-spot is located 📍 5-8 centimeters (2-3 inches) up the anterior vaginal wall. The G-spot is actually a bundle of nerves encased within that soft fleshy area that’s textured very much like the roof of your mouth. For many, stimulating this area produces a more intense orgasm than that of the clitoral kind and sometimes even lends to ✨ female ejaculation.✨
To further the educational and instructional part of this post, we’ve decided to insert a little Q&A Time!
Q: I have tried to find my G-spot to no avail? Where is its exact place inside my vagina?
A: First of all, your G-spot isn’t actually a spot. The word spot seems to have been chosen as a vague explanation of a more general location. But don’t worry! According to Youtube sex guru Adina Rivers every woman has a “sacred spot”. She claims all women can have amazing orgasms, via proper stimulation.
Q: How do I find and awaken my G-spot?
A: The first thing that needs to happen is for you to get horny. Seriously. Reaching a heightened level of arousal is key to finding your special spot effectively. That means you need to feel the urge to get-off. How you get there is entirely up to you, and it’s a fact that many women find it easier to have a G-spot orgasm using their fingers. Just make sure you allow yourself enough time to become fully aroused or even bring yourself to orgasm beforehand.
Once you’re sufficiently turned on, gently use two fingers (ring and middle) to enter your vagina, and then move up the natural curve of the anterior wall. Stop about 2-3 inches in and relax. Because the G-spot area needs direct stimulation, manually using your fingers or a specific G-spot stimulator works best. The next step is to find what type of stimulation works best for you. There are many ways that can get you to your happy place, but we’ll just touch on a few of Adina Rivers’ favorites.
Q: How do I find and awaken my G-spot?
A: First, get horny. Seriously. Reaching a heightened level of arousal is key to finding your special spot effectively. That means you need to feel the urge to get-off. How you get there is entirely up to you, and it’s a fact that many women find it easier to have a G-spot orgasm using their fingers. Just make sure you allow yourself enough time to become fully aroused or even bring yourself to orgasm beforehand.
Once you’re sufficiently turned on, gently use two fingers (ring and middle) to enter your vagina, and then move up the natural curve of the anterior wall. Stop about 2-3 inches in and relax. Because the G-spot area needs direct stimulation, manually using your fingers or a specific G-spot stimulator works best. The next step is to find what type of stimulation works best for you. There are many ways that can get you to your happy place, but we’ll just touch on a few of Adina Rivers’ favorites.
*An extremely effective method is the “come hither” motion of two fingers. Slow beckoning strokes and an occasional flick against your special spot will have a super O come your way quickly.
*Another way that works well is moving your two fingers in slow-to-fast circular motion firmly on the sensitive area. As you’re rubbing, apply more and more pressure till you POP. Wait. Don’t literally explode but do have an explosive orgasm. That’s both allowed and encouraged.
*The third technique that deserves a mention is the press and hold. After gently inserting your fingers and placing them on the G-spot, press and hold your fingers on it in a pulsatile fashion. Think of Morse Code, or kneading bread but inside your vagina. As you press each time, apply more pressure.
*Lastly, and importantly, part of awakening your G-spot is to also pay attention to the clitoris. The clitoris is said to be linked directly to the nerves of the G-spot so stimulation to both areas is sure to deliver the double whammy you’re looking for!
Now that you have some good information and instruction, you may feel like going on the G-spot journey yourself—if you haven’t already. Perhaps you’ll be attempting to get there with a heterosexual partner? Or a same sex partner with a strap-on? Stimulation via penis/dildo penetration is difficult because of the angle required. That’s why fingers are better suited and special tools (adult toys) can can both enhance and help the experience.
Nobu Ducky G Spot & C Spot Intimate Massager
$108.99
By Bodispa inc
The Nobu Ducky G-spot and C-spot (clitoris) is both beautiful in design with it’s soft silky silicone covering and powerful vibration modes—10 total. This massager is easy to use with its simple controls and quiet motors making it as secret as you want. It’s also 100% waterproof so you can take it in the shower or bath with you as well!
Blush Adonis 7 Function G-Spot & Clitoral Stimulator
$30.99
Oh Adonis how we love thee! This toy is an “ingeniously designed object of pleasure.” It works like a dream and is sure to bring your inner Aphrodite out with its sensual vibrations. The realistic head and rigid shaft is designed to please and stimulate the G-spot in addition to buzzing against your clit. It’s the perfect storm of sensations.
Wand Essentials 3 Teez Wand Attachment
$25.99
By Xr llc
This is noteworthy item that’s an add-on attachment to a toy you may already own. Also, it’s guaranteed to deliver triple the pleasure. With its G-spot stimulator, clit stimulator and anal stimulator it’s hard to imagine a reason NOT to add it to your treasure trove of toys. Seriously, your vagina, clit and anus will thank you.
$197.99
By Si novelties
Exxxtreme Sheets may be just the thing you need if you or your partner turn out to be an impressive squirter (ejaculator). The machine-washable 100% waterproof rubber sheets are amazing because they were made to be used with all kinds of lubricants—oil-based too—making way for all the fun and orgasms you will have. Other rubber sheet options available: Sportsheets, Kink, and Liberator.
That’s it for now. Look for part two, the men’s G-spot edition, coming to you in the middle of this month. Happy hunting! Want to see what other G-spot toys and tools Cupid’s has to offer? Visit shopcupids.com for our full assortment of lingerie, adult items and apparel.
XOXO- Cupid
*In-store prices may differ from online prices.